I remember once talking to a guy, his wife sent him my way and he asked me what he could be doing to have a better marriage and I said “well a weekly date night is a great place to start “
He replied yeah, I don’t really have time for that. I suggested that he should make time. Then he asked for a suggestion On a good date night to which I replied “grab a blanket, bring some food and go down to the beach and watch the sunset together. He proceeded to tell me that he really doesn’t like the sun or being outside much and doesn’t like the beach.
I’m going to tell you what I told him. “it’s not about you!” You will only get out of your marriage what you put into it. If you’re too busy or self focused to direct your attention on meeting your wife’s needs. Don’t be surprised if she will be too busy as well.
